I know my wife rushed to read this article. Hi Babe 💓

The title of this article will hit you by surprise, especially if you come to the understanding that I am barely two months into married life.

Don't get me wrong, marriage is a beautiful thing. But, if you have yet to settle these things, getting married is a stupid idea.

Decisions Making: It's estimated that the average adult makes about 35,000 remotely conscious decisions each day. Some of those decisions may lead to unfortunate consequences if you are not careful. If you are not convinced in your own heart that you are ready for marriage, or you find yourself struggling with the decision of getting married, YOU ARE NOT READY! And, getting married is a stupid idea! Don't allow it!

Choices: I know you always make smart choices. Most of us have a pretty good idea about what we need to be doing to keep us on track toward our goals. In marriage, your choices are not limited to what you like or what you think, you have to compromise. If you think this is too much for you to handle, then, getting married is a stupid idea! Don't do it!

Standards: Please don't fall for the trap of evaluating your partner's success by other people's measure of success. If you find yourself doing that at the moment, especially with the person you want to spend the rest of your life with, and every time, he or she appears to push themselves to reach that bar you've set, PLEASE HIT THE PAUSE. The man or woman you think you are dating is NOT the man or woman he or she is. He or she is only pushing to meet up to expectations. Expectations you've set. Getting married based on these standards might be a stupid idea! Don't fall for it!.

And with these few points of mine, I hope I've been able to... well, you know the rest of this famous quote.

Have a nice day *winks*